Choosing the Right Dog: 3 Must-Know Tips for the Perfect Match
Hi, my name is Allison! I’m the owner of Peticularly Perfect, and I’ve been training dogs for over 10 years. I’ve been thinking… why do so many people ask themselves, “Do I feel lucky?” when choosing a dog?
Believe me, this is the WRONG question to ask when picking your new best friend! You don’t want to choose a dog based only on how cute it is and just hope for the best. While it’s possible you might luck out and get a dog that’s a perfect fit for you, it’s more likely that you won’t.
Stack the odds in your favor and find a pup more precious than a pot of gold with these 3 Must-Knows:
Reference Sections:
- Every Dog Is Different
- Stereotypes Don’t Serve You
- Letting Your Puppy Stray
- Coming Whenever Your Puppy Cries
- Not Using Corrections
- Not Being Consistent
- Consoling Your Puppy Into a Monster
Every Dog Is Different
Dogs have unique personalities, energy levels, fears, and preferences. Some are smarter than others. Some are instantly loving, while others take time to develop trust. Some sleep all day, while others can’t stop moving. People have different personalities too, and we get along better with certain types than others.
Basic dog temperament types include: skeptical, dominant, independent, interactive, and submissive. From there, your dog can be primarily active or calm.
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No one temperament is necessarily better than another, but some types will be a better fit for you.
So, ask yourself honestly: “Are we a good match?”
The key to having a “good dog” is having a balanced dog. Unbalanced dogs can become aggressive, fearful, or obsessive, often ending up in shelters when their behavior problems become too difficult for their owners to handle. Consider your living situation and what you want from your pup. The more you understand your dog, the better prepared you’ll be to meet their needs. If you’re a good match, there won’t be much you can’t handle!
Stereotypes Don’t Serve You
While some behaviors, traits, and health problems can be more common in specific dog breeds, you should never rely on stereotypes.
Many people assume certain dogs will behave in a specific way based on their breed. You might think that super cute dog will have a super cute personality. But a dog can be adorable and still chew up your furniture! Or maybe you had the best dog growing up, so you assume picking the same breed and sex will get you that same perfect match.
But every dog is different! Don’t leave your new dog’s fate to Lady Luck!
There are many misconceptions when it comes to a dog’s size, sex, and breed. Contrary to popular belief, male dogs are not more aggressive, small dogs are not less problematic, and pitbulls are not inherently dangerous. Dogs are individuals, just like humans! One thing is universally true, though: they all speak the same language — dog! By observing their body language, facial expressions, and personality, you’ll begin to understand them.
💡Pro Tip: Rather than focusing on physical traits, get to know the individual dog you’re bringing into your life.
You Have the Power
All dogs have their issues, but you have the power to choose a dog whose issues aren’t a big deal for you.
When a dog doesn’t get enough exercise, bad behavior is bound to appear. Choose a dog that matches your energy level. If you’re a daily jogger, a high-energy dog could be a match made in heaven. If you enjoy sleeping in, a more mellow pup will be a better fit.
If you’re adopting, remember there are many dogs in need of homes. Don’t rush into a decision. Take your time. Meet different dogs and even consider trial periods to find a companion that complements your lifestyle. If you’re choosing a puppy, pay attention to how they interact with people and other puppies.
💡Pro Tip! Regardless of temperament, you have a lot of influence over how your dog reacts simply by using calm and confident energy to reinforce good behavior. After all, you don’t want to be the one chasing your dog down the street!
Don’t leave your new dog’s fate up to chance. Take your time, do your research, and make an informed decision.
Then, thank your lucky stars that you found your true fur-ever friend!
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